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“It could be anything: ‘great taste in clothes, I only need three hours of sleep per night,’ anything.” Next, find examples of those qualities in action.
“Not in terms of feelings but in terms of what you’re actually doing,” says Oren.
“In that process you can get in there all kinds of personality traits and nuances that will communicate to a prospective date whether they feel you’re someone they can take on financially,” Oren says.
She suggests an easy exercise to get your profile rolling. “I wrote, ‘good sense of humor, sarcastic New York sensibility but not cynical, optimistic, a good friend and affectionate,'” she says.
This is to make you like them and want to spend money on them. [Read: 20 common signs of people pleasers to watch out for] #2 She has in common with you.