Dating expectations boys and girls ddating game
Unlike most Western cultures - in Korea's culture it's borderline weird to talk to strangers (or "mollen saram" as you would say in Korea.) To talk to strangers means that you have no friends or family.
So if you strike a conversation with her (even to ask for directions) she might walk away.
;-)But let's say you and her are going on a date in Korea. Heck one friend of mine told me that guys would straight up walk to her and tell her how ashamed she should be!
He was dating a flight attendant and this happened in the Seoul subway.
Not only that but in the hierarchy of things they subconsciously see 'Western men' as being slotted above them.
Personally I think this is stupid but I didn't make up the society or their points of view. That being said you'll have a hard time without it being your fault because of their strict society. In fact you might be pleasantly surprised to discover that Korea is changing to becoming more open-minded.
Note: Korean guys reading this - don't confuse the message with the messenger. I also know that you think that most Western men look down on you (and all this adds to the resentment.) Then again I'm open to debate as to what you think is going on. Discover how to meet hot Korean women and make it happen. In any case - Korean women are gorgeous and going through the process to date one is worth it.
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Notice my contemptuous tone - I've lost Seoul girlfriends simply because I wasn't "local" enough and yes…it has made me somewhat bitter (unfortunately.) But I'm getting better. If Korea's culture and society didn't make it tough enough - Local guys (in general) don't want it to happen either. Note that the prettier she is - the more guys will shame her.Local guys (like local women) have obligations too and envy expats because they don't.